But what if that event went like this ....
Mary: They have no wine.
Jesus: Woman what does your concern have to do with me. My hour has not yet come.
Mary (to servant): Do whatever He tells you.
Jesus (to servant): Fill the jars with water.
Imagine that? Imagine if the servant flat out refused to follow Christ's request? Told Him no. Turned away from Him. Decided to do his own thing instead.
We do it every day.